Over the river and through the woods to grandmother’s house might not happen for Christmas this year … or for several months afterward, for that matter. At a time of year when we most look forward to seeing far off relatives, some of whom might be a little older, it is hard for us to think about whether it is safe and right to do so.
Imagine how hard it is for them, particularly if they are living in group facilities where visits have been limited (or forbidden) for months up months already.
It is essential, particularly if you made the right decisions to keep them safe over Christmas or other holiday gatherings, not to leave those folks out of the celebrations entirely.
Send cards, send gifts, make a phone call … make a video call. In fact, if a person is unable to be part of the celebrations in person, perhaps a thoughtful gift would be a tablet or upgraded smartphone that would allow them to participate in such video calls.
Let them know you made a recipe they passed down to you, or that you are wearing a sweater they gave as a gift last year.
Let them know you’re thinking of them, and are planning for a visit as soon as it is safe.
Let them know they are not alone and not forgotten.
It may take some creativity to reach out safely, but we can do it.